The Lady Who Wouldn’t Leave

So last article we were in the process of running away from our problems. And I gave an example of a lady who wouldn’t leave a dead relationship.

The lady has a Scorpio South Node. People that come into this life with this particular script insist on being blended with other people’s energies and resources at all costs. In a more innocuous sense, they love the bonding they get with that “one special person”. However, this leads to them becoming so entangled with their would-be soulmate, they lose themselves in the process. The relationship becomes lopsided because all the focus is on the other person and what they have going on. They end up neglecting their own energies and resources in the process.

The Scorpio Script

The most basic question from this script this lady has been using her whole life is asking “What does this other person want?” She wants a man, or so she thinks. She would do anything to enter into a deep bonded merger with the right man. Her Scorpio lifescript enacts this by finding a man of suitable disposition, figuring him out, pinning him down, and taking care of all his needs so she can be with him. Once she achieves this goal she rests for a while.

What is she really doing? She doesn’t care about this man as much as she thinks.

I have said before that only two people that are whole in themselves can successfully find their “other half”. This lady has been looking for that other half that will complete her. However, what she really does once she has secured her man is plug into him at a soul level while being undetected on the surface. It’s not honest. She is sucking his soul while on the surface putting on an innocent pretty face. In the process she is completely ignoring her own agency and dwindling as a result.

And so is he.

This evolutionary pattern leads to a bad result. She loses her own power while creating a karmic mess for herself.

Unix philosopher Eric Raymond says that it is bad design for a process to have intimate knowledge of another processes’ internals. There are inputs and outputs, and in between, a black box.

What is going on inside the black box? You’re not supposed to know.

People are like this. They have inputs and outputs, and in between, a black box, thinking unknown thoughts and calculating unknown equations. In normal human relations one person’s outputs connect to another person’s inputs, and then that person will output something back to the original person’s inputs and so on and so forth. This is honest relating.

However, what our lady does is become too insistent on having knowledge of another person’s internal processes, and connecting her internal processes (her blackbox) to another person’s black box.

Bad design!

Her evolutionary strategy relies on her doing this. Her script is “I must get in there and feed!”

She is only dimly aware of this, if at all.

What this evolutionary strategy leads to is her getting so enmeshed with the internal processes of another person (her man) that from the outset it creates a dishonest relationship. It creates a vampiric condition where she is feeding off his lifeforce. Her problem becomes all about how she can get what she wants (unconsciously) from this living lifeforce.

But what happens is he grows weak and exhausted in the process and she can no longer feed the way she once did. So now she is growing resentful because her life strategy (South Node in Scorpio) is no longer working.

So what does she do? The only thing she knows how to do. She keeps sucking!

Meanwhile, she starts thinking about leaving the relationship because “It ain’t working out”. That would be a good instinct except for the thought that follows it –“I need to find another man”.

No, what the bitch needs to do is LEAVE and not inflict herself on another unwitting victim.

What she needs to do is leave and self-exile herself from entering into any further entangling liaisons with the fairer sex and realize that she is the real beast of the species. This lovely lady from the lowlands.

How would a lady with such long-standing vampiric tendencies go about doing this?

By flipping the script, yo!

That’s what this nodal axis of ze Moon is about. You got two nodes. One is South, one is North. The Southern Node of the Moon is where you come into this life with a lifescript that don’t work no more for you.

The North Node is the complete opposite polarity. It’s where you need to go to unfuck yourself from your overdone condition.

There are twelve possible lifescripts you can come into this life with. There are twelve signs of the zodiac and the twelve houses of the horoscope. Capishe?

The lady who wouldn’t leave has the Scorpio South Node as her lifescript. She’s probably also an INFJ, which exacerbates this lifescript to have particular application to sucking the soulmate.

Anyway, next time we are going to get into the solution for this particular conundrum.

I’m going to show you how this lady could stop trying to solve the problem with more of the problem.

The bitch is gonna flip the script on a lifetime of woes.

She going to the North Node.

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