Astrology Meets Myers-Briggs
It is typical of INFJ INFP to approach love like it will save them from their bad or mediocre lives. They have rescue fantasies. They think <<If I just had that person, my life would take off, I would be happy and complete>>.
But the way attraction works is that you can only attract more of the same. It’s called the <<The Reality Cycle>> in Law of Attraction literature.
In my experience, I have seen a lot of INFP women who think they are INFJs — a lot. That’s the most common mistype in my long experience consulting with people.
However, if a woman is truly an INFP, but following INFJ advice, she is going to be led subtly off-path, get stuck, and not know what the problem is, nor how to fix it.
There’s a quiet assumption behind most relationships:
That if the feeling is strong enough, everything else will follow.
For idealistic types like INFJ and INFP, they take this to the maximum limit.
But this is where things start to go wrong.
Feeling occurs through the sentiments, while understanding occurs through the mentality. Therefore, as we can see, there is a bit of an irony here in this dual requirement of the INFJ man to both be wet and be dry. In fact, I think this is the key to why they are so difficult in relationships.
Intuitive feelers turn every feeling into an abstraction. All idealism involves emotional abstraction to get to the purified ideal, or thing-in-itself, like love or hate, but now cut-off from the environment or outer world where it originated. Maybe it originated in another world, like a Platonic ideal.
So we got our lady who wouldn’t leave. The lady is poor.
Why is she poor?
Because she has placed all her value into another person.
Her solution?
Run to the land of the rich.
So last article we were in the process of running away from our problems. And I gave an example of a lady who wouldn’t leave a dead relationship.
What if your problem goes away if you stop trying to solve the problem you think you have?
The Martian INFJ is one of the least INFJesque of INFJs. They wouldn’t often be identified with INFJ MBTI type, but make no mistake they are, so let’s get on it boy.
The Jupiterian INFJ is very gifted but they coast too much on their potential, often without developing it. The Dude is actually a very good example of a Jupiter INFJ. Look how charmed he is. Look how he enters life and there is this LARGER PLAN going on that he stumbles into. He is the […]
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