Get Compatible™: A New Approach to Dating Coaching

Find you. Then find who fits.

Most people approach relationships by asking:

“Who is the right person for me?”

But I believe the more important question is:

“Are you the right person for you?”

Your career, where you live, how you spend your time, the people you meet, and the activities you pursue all influence the kind of relationships you’re able to attract and sustain. 

To put it bluntly, if your life isn’t compatible with who you are, then how can you expect to attract your dream mate?

Before you go looking for that perfect person who will complete you, we need to see if your life is compatible with you. 

A Different Approach to Relationship Compatibility

The Get Compatible™ Method is a six-month private coaching experience that starts with my proprietary MBTI personality typing + personalized astrological assessment, which is then applied to your actual life in the form of identifying bottlenecks, leveraging your primary superpower, and taking decisive action toward a life that is genuinely compatible with you.

This isn’t traditional dating coaching.

It’s a process of gaining laser insight into yourself, applying that insight to your life in the form of leveraged action, which leads first to self-compatibility, then relationship compatibility.

Once you complete this process, finding a compatible partner should be easy and effortless, a natural extension of all the previous phases.

The Six-Phase Process

01 — MBTI TYPE and Compatibility

Find Your True MBTI Type and Leverage It

Using my proprietary Stellar Maze MBTI typing method, we go beyond a standard personality test to determine your true MBTI type through multiple sources of evidence, including your life history, pictures and videos, behavioral patterns, targeted questions, and finally a real-time voice conversation.

The result is your Stellar Maze MBTI Type—the psychological foundation for everything that follows, on to and up to finding a partner that you are compatible with. Compatibility starts with knowing your true MBTI type. 

02 — Astrology and Compatibility

Discover Your Dominant Planet

We then bring astrology into the picture, identifying your dominant planet and combining it with your MBTI type to give you a highly-leveraged cocktail of kick-assness with which you will crush all competitors by focusing on only the extreme strengths that combining these two indicates. 

Basically, it’s a framework for understanding how the natural strengths of your MBTI type can be leveraged in your actual life, including scoring the partner of your dreams!

03 — Your Actual Life and What’s Really Going on? 

Find the Bottleneck

Now we take all the shit from the previous phases and look at your real life with an eye towards what you are doing, what you are involved in on a daily basis. 

This includes everything: Career. Work. Lifestyle. Daily habits. Living situation. City. Environment. Hobbies. Exercise. Relationships. 

We spare no expense in crawling into your life and getting down to what the fuck is really going on and where the biggest things holding you back are, particularly in daily habits of exercise (or the lack thereof), sleep, information intake habits (doomscrolling on your phone, screens, laptops, sitting on your ass), diet, and in short everything you do in a typical day from waking to sunset and beyond.

We identify where you are losing energy big-time, what is draining you, what’s incompatible with you.

Conversely, we identify what is working, and particularly what is working very well already. Then we minimize the former and maximize the latter.

04 — TAKE ACTION! 

Make the 80/20 Move

We don’t create an enormous life plan.

We identify the one high-leverage action that can create the greatest forward momentum right now.

It may mean changing your environment, ending something that’s holding you back, pursuing a neglected ability, changing career direction, joining a new community, or simply making a decision you’ve been avoiding.

Find the bottleneck. Find the leverage. Make the move.

05 — STABILIZE THYSELF!

Make the Change Sustainable

By this point you have taken sufficient 80/20 actions on a need-to-know emergent basis. Now we evaluate the results.

What’s working? What isn’t? 

We fine-tune until your life feels seamless. 

06 — FIND A PARTNER

Build it And They Will Come

Once your life is becoming compatible with who you are, we can ask the question you’ve all been waiting for:

Who would fit into this beautiful life I have built for myself?

At this phase we’ll reconnect with all that stuff from the first two phases where we found your true MBTI type and your highly-leveraged astro-MBTI cocktail. Now we will use these factors in finding you a mate. This is where we’ll explore prospective partners using MBTI intertype compatibility + astrological compatibility using your MBTI type + dominant planet in combination with the other person’s likely MBTI type + dominant planet. I will assist you in assessing these criteria so that you only invest in your most compatible partners, the one’s that you can create a potential soulmate relationship with.

We’ll also explore how you create attraction with prospective partners via communication, dress, and body language. We’ll discover the environments where compatible partners are likely to be found. 

This is fun!

What Makes This Different?

I don’t believe you need a massive life plan.

My approach is tactical and highly individualized.

Rather than giving you dozens of goals to work on simultaneously, we look at the one or two things that put you in a high degree of compatibility and accord with your life, and then we fade all the rest. 

I’ll be there to help you identify what these things are and provide support and guidance as you implement changes. I’ll push you to fight against incompatible shit in your life that is holding you back from happiness and success.

What You’ll Receive

Over six months of private coaching, you’ll receive:

• Personalized MBTI and astrological assessment and guidance
• A deep diving into your current life circumstances
• Identification of your major life bottlenecks.
• Identification of your superpowers
• Tactical guidance on your highest-leverage next actions
• Strategy sessions scheduled according to your needs
• Feedback and accountability between sessions

Who Is This For?

The Get Compatible™ Coaching Method is for you if you:

• Keep repeating incompatible relationship patterns
• Want to find a long-term partner who genuinely complements your way of life
• Want practical action rather than another abstract self-improvement program

The Investment

Six Months of Private Coaching

$3,500

Strategy sessions are scheduled throughout the six-month engagement according to your needs, with support available between sessions.

One important note

I cannot promise that you will meet your future partner during the six-month program. However, I can help you create a life that is genuinely compatible with who you are, which will dramatically improve your ability to attract your ideal partner.

To get started, email me at blake@stellarmaze with “I Wanna Get Compatible” in the email header and we’ll go from there.