I MUST HAVE THAT (WO)MAN

In some ways, I think E3 ENFJ is more misunderstood than INFJ.

Take Axl Rose.

https://youtu.be/uOXDbMne6Ek?t=7s

Wtf is his problem, right?

I think people see that he was a violent, homophobic, misogynistic asshole. He screeched like a cactus on acid. He wasn’t talented. Guns N Roses should have got another vocalist who could sing.

Problem is that all the qualities that make E3 ENFJ unbearable; histrionics, emotionalism, drama, theatrics are the very thing that make them genius.

Now, let’s get onto this LOVE thing. Because love is the thing they are genius at – romantic love.

And what is romantic love? How is it different from the other types of love? What are the other types of love?

See, I always feel this is what people are talking about when they say “I don’t love you anymore”. They mean romantic love. “You’ve lost that loving feeling and now it’s gone, gone, gone”.

And people like to poo poo romantic love like it’s such a trite and superficial thing, like when you put it like that – romantic love – “O child, that shit just don’t last, gotta get on to that mature love”.

And this is part of the reason that I think E3 ENFJ is misunderstood…because romantic love is misunderstood…

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